Day 38, Humility Practice!

As I work on book two “Stop APE-ing Around” and the “21 Day Transformational Detox” to share with others (be on the look out for the Youtube channel on both), I find myself reflecting on the lessons I have learned along life’s path. Smiling of course, for I am always a work in progress, growing and becoming everyday.

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“Just imagine becoming the way you used to be as a very young child, before you understood the meaning of any word, before opinions took over your mind. The real you is loving, joyful, and free. The real you is just like a flower, just like the wind, just like the ocean, just like the sun.” ~Don Miguel Ruiz

A practice I started years ago, continues to surface with soft grace. I keep trying to remember when I embraced this powerful practice. I think it came around the time I had a life altering experience with forgiveness, which rocked me to my core and changed me forever. It was the summer of 2008, a time of humbling proportions for me. The dictionary defines humility and humble as a “lowering” of one’s importance or dignity. While “lower” is often defined as less than, I must say that with regard to humble humility, the “lowering” of my importance and or dignity is the most gracious gift I can give myself and others. When I am in this state I feel as though I float on a cloud of love, wrapped with sunlit inter-connectedness.

hu·mil·i·ty

noun

1. a modest or low view of one’s own importance; humbleness.

hum·ble

verb

1. lower (someone) in dignity or importance.

So, where does humble humility fit in with my next book, the detox and a practice? Well, the book is digging into how Attachments, Perceptions, and Expectations (APE) can intensely impact our relationships and interactions with others. The detox requires one to let go of addictions, patterns, and sabotaging behaviors with food, to really get clean within the body, mind and spirit. The practice keeps me in humble honoring authenticity with myself and all others.

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“An arrogant person considers himself perfect. This is the chief harm of arrogance. It interferes with a person’s main task in life – becoming a better person.” ~ Leo Tolstoy

The day lightening struck me with the true intensity of forgiveness, is also the moment I came home to a practice that can always bring me back to the truth. I am not a “religious” person, actually rebelled against it all during my growing up years, I am however a very spiritual being, and have been my whole life. That being said, on the morning of my grand awakening, the teaching to bow and wash the feet of another, especially one once considered an enemy, absolutely filled my heart and soul with a level of love beyond anything I had ever thought possible.

I took this newfound awareness and asked for the privilege to wash the feet of the person involved with my profound journey. They elected not to receive, which of course was of their choosing. I bowed in gratitude and swelled with joy for the love I could now feel for this person. Since this experience I check myself always to see if I am in a space of loving humility, leaving behind the ego attachments, perceptions, expectations and judgments. It is a “feeling” driven experience, as all things truly are…

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“Do you wish to rise? Begin by descending. You plan a tower that will pierce the clouds? Lay first the foundation of humility.” ~Saint Augustine

How does it work? When I find myself reacting to someone, I understand clearly that I am taking something personal, due to attachments, perceptions, expectations or judgments. This is not how I personally wish to connect or experience time with others. So, I check myself! I take a deep breath, truly look at the person and ask my internal self, “Can I bow down in this moment to wash this person’s feet?” As I shift into the humble feeling, all reaction is washed away and I am free to interact from a place of compassion and truth. When I move into the feeling of humility, I visualize myself washing their feet, how incredible it feels to honor someone with such vulnerable openness. I am free of all attachments, preconceived perceptions, expectations and judgments in that moment. It changes everything.

I am no better than another. I am merely a human being doing my best with love, compassion, joy, and a little bit of grace. With this practice, I get to always choose love. It does not mean I stay and allow myself to be attacked or abused. It frees me inside to not carry and hold the experience as negative. I get to drop into humility, forgive, let go, and step forward accordingly. It is a simple practice that has empowered and changed how I live. I am daily grateful for the light heart it bestows upon me.

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“I claim to be a simple individual liable to err like any other fellow mortal. I own, however, that I have humility enough to confess my errors and to retrace my steps.” ~Mahatma Gandhi

May today offer you the gentle cradling of humility, for its loving grace opens grand pathways to the heart and soul. A.C.T. (always choose truth) with humble awe for the gifts that each new day bestows upon you.

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2 thoughts on “Day 38, Humility Practice!

  1. Thank you. My attachments, expectations, and the way I take most everything personally are definitely at the heart of my personal growth process and what I can feel is holding me back. Last year I had a psychic tell me to “Quit letting stupid people annoy me.” As basic and meaningless as this might sound, it is a real and valuable mantra for me. All of those “stupid people” are just people not doing things my way. And oh my god do I get annoyed! And then I stew and ruminate on it for hours, days, weeks, yes sometimes years. They did not meet my expectations. They did it “wrong”. They must be stupid! And if they’re not stupid, then they must have done it on purpose JUST to annoy me!! Oh good grief. Fun to see how truly ridiculous it looks when written out. Good to know I still have lots to learn! The psychic also said I would live to be as old as dirt. I wouldn’t want to think I had it all figured out and get bored. Lol 😉

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    1. Your lovely response gave me a sweet giggle – for the humanness we all are. Gotta love our learning and growing journey, it is a glorious moment by moment opportunity to become :-). Yes, yes, yes, I agree, “wouldn’t want to figure it all out”, I enjoy the mystery, unexplainable and raw expression which teaches me more everyday! So glad the world will have your gifts for years and years to come!

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